Hi Luv, I had a "Bachelorette Fete" the day after my divorce. Invited all my friends to celebrate getting through it, and I got to celebrate them--the good, supportive people in my life. That's who you want around. I'm advocating a "Bachelorette Fete" tradition for all of us who were not treated nicely and are looking forward to a new life...even if its hard to move forward sometimes, you will be better off next time around!