Got served, on December 14th. I have this week to file a response. She went on vacation with her parents on the 18th, and returned the 6th. she has really cut down the comunication. I don't know if I should reach out with a hello. I am praying alot. There is a 6 month period here in California before it's final. Just trying to work on me. Don't know if I am doing a good job or not, because this really hurts.. There is a website called rejoice marriage. It believes in standing for your marriage regardless of the situation, but I listened to a program from Joel Ostein, and he says when someone walks away from a relationship don't take it personal, move on. don't get wrong he mentions that if there is hope then by all means work on the marriage, but if not don't let yourself be held down by depressing emotions. I am confused.. There is a guy on here by the name "Roylovehiswife". Roy if you get this would love to hear from you, or anyone for that matter.