Update since last time. She never left. We are back in the same room. Sleeping for both of us has improved. And we are seeing a therapist.
Which brings me to my next question... and I may move this thread soon. The therapist told me after a couple of sessions (one as a couple and one as individuals) that my WAW is having a "serious emotional crisis, [you can call it] a midlife crisis."
He has some good ideas as to why this is happening now; the important thing is that none of them have anything to do with me. He actually told me to stop blaming myself. I read MWD's chapter on this in DR and looked at the appropriate video. They are spot on with what I am experiencing at home.
If any of you have any suggestions on what to do, I'd appreciate it. We are continuing with therapy as indivduals so she can sort things out, but that is by no means a sign that it will go either way. Therapist has mentioned the potential outcomes of separation but isn't pushing it at this point.
