i agree. but i will admit that i am jaded. i have deep trust issues. i would keep everyone at arms length.
do i need that emotional connection? all women do. but if i don't have it, then i don't. i won't spend the energy to go out and look for it.
physical connection? don't need that either. there are so many risks, baggage, issues, etc. drama! don't need it, don't want it.
my h would rather be a hermit. he was a hermit when i met him. dumped me to go back to that hermit lifestyle where all his needs are met by his mother. physical? he buys a ton of lotion and porn. yup. i've been replaced by costco size bottle of vaseline and porn.
how can i keep that ring on my finger? i couldn't take it off fast enough.
the only reason why i would want a marriage is for children. i don't have any. but there are ways to do that without a man these days.
