Still doesn't change the approach though. You can't keep starting a fight to get her to want to come back. If you make things "safer" for her, then she might start to reconsider. That's just the way it is. It may not be fair, but that's what needs to happen.
Trust me I know what you're feeling. I feel bad for my kids who have to see us going through the things my W and I are.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.