Your comment of "feeling like dirt for too long" is spot on. However, I think we both need to realize that WE CHOOSE to stand. We Choose to allow ourselves to be treated this way.
you are totally right. totally right. I could have filed for divorce 6 months ago if I didn't want to deal with this, but I didn't because I wasn't ready to let go.
Everyone said the anger would come...but like I said it is more like I am disgusted than actually anger. I guess you said it best when you said it was a "low simmer anger". I just walk around thinking to myself "F him"
TAMF m:41 xh:41 T: 20 M: 15 D: 16 D: 14 Bomb dropped: 7/3/10 separated: 7/15/10 H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11 divorced: 8/26/12