I feel a bit silly posting about this as it seems a small thing but something I am confused about how I should feel about.
Joe has been really great lately, sending me little texts and calling me. However, it is something I am just not used to, I am used to LRT where you make no initiation.
So, when I drop him a text or call him I feel anxious. Like, I am intruding or he will have to make an effort to text me back (which I know is the point!). However after all the exh madness for so long it is hard to readjust my thinking. The other thing is if I call him and he doesn't answer, again i feel like I am being a bother or something, although he said I can call him anytime.
Yesterday he called me at what he thought was my lunch hour to wish me good luck at my new job. I couldn't speak so I said I'd call him back after 5. I did and he didn't pick up. I know he was probably busy but what do I do, try him again at lunchtime, send him a message (he can't text back as no credit), or just leave it?
This sounds so silly to me to type it but after all the exh madness, I am not sure what is normal anymore!
