Bad.

$350 is a big amount. To be courteous you should both be talking to each other about withdrawals from the account.

Apologize and say that as it is a joint account you would also like to know of all transactions. Who is contributing to it?

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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