DB'ing but it's a daily struggle - need support.

[habitacker]

I would take that as a positive. I would love to hear my wife ask me anything about the way I was feeling. I say, good for you, but don't take it for anymore than what it is. I also agree with Angel.

Heck, I would love it if she would ask me to pick up some dog food.lol. She is so hard in her ways right now, she would drive 100 miles for dog food before she would ask me to bring some home if I was working at Purina.

The point to that is that if I do something that even appears to be helping her in some way, she fights it.

When I got the D bomb, she also said "I don't need you". I assume this no help from me business has something to do with feelings regarding this statement. She is coming around now though. It is no longer like trying to get through an NFL offensive line just to load the dishwasher.