The pursuer and distancer - its a dance. When you pursue, she distances. Vice versa. Get it? Which would you rather be in? I am in the same boat right now - decided since Jan.1st to distance. No H is being sooo friendly.
How to act? As I heard before, read before, keep your distance "lovingly", be friendly but distracted, not too enthusiastic.
Positive in a sense that you know she is watching you. Not indifferent.
Positive in a sense that your actions may possibly have a good effect in the future. Your changes are noticed.
Remember though that everything takes time. Keep up the good work.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
