I hear you Harrier. I completely 100% acknowledged what I've done wrong and the bad habits I built up over time. I'm working on breaking them, and wish I'd done it sooner.
I'm not really sure what else I can do, and if our W's have been looking for this, you think they be happy to finally be getting it. They seem to feel like "it's too late", but I just don't understand that concept.
Regardless I've told my W numerous times that I understand and appreciate where she's coming from, but at same time she was 1 person for a period of time trying to make a difference, and now the tables have turned. You think being in that sitch for so long she'd understand the pain and want to get back to the happy place together.
I get it though - they don't believe it. Fine. I'll keep doing my best, and when she's ready I'll be here to work with her.
I just hope we get there at some point and that she doesn;t stay angry and bitter forever.
Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011