And I agree, with sgctxok, all of this is so beautiful!!!
Funny how life is, huh? You working with W's ex. I think its great. I really do. I have to also agree that you cannot worry about what W thinks right now. You are doing the right thing in protecting your kids.
I am glad you are speaking with a member of the clergy. I find for myself that it helps me because I know that the Lord wants me to do what is right. I find comfort in that in my stand for saving my M. How do you feel about going to that support group? It sounds like a really good idea. The best thing you can do for yourself is get educated about what you are dealing with here.
Tank, you are doing such a great job with all of this. You are making good, sound decisions. A lot of us here could learn from you. You have to keep fighting and not give up. Whatever you do, don't give up (sometimes it would be great to take my own advice).