just wanted to say hello - it's almost 1 year since my last post - where I am at: we are still separated and are getting divorced.
The news: my husband is seeing someone new!
When he first split with me 1.5 years ago I found his seceret FB account shortly after - one of his friends was the co-worker he gotten close to at the time and I assumed he had an affair with at the time and then there was another co-worker on his friends list he described at the time as: she is always too close - she always touches my arm - he let me to believe at the time he didn't like it - yes and she is now the new girlfriend since beginning of this year.
She never even crossed my mind as a possibility- all those months - I just found it odd that co-worker #1 defriended my husband and her at the same time end of 2009 or maybe the 2 defriended her at the same time.
Anyway my kids met her this x-mas - he brought her to Ireland together with her daughter - she is a single mother like I was all these years ago when I first met my husband.
Anyway I have made zero progress in gathering evidence - everybody was told she only entered his life this year - everything is tutti and I am not the much wiser.
I have good and bad days - I still believe that me not having any details and no closure stops my healing or at least slows it down a lot.
