LOL - so my W just called me at work. Asked me to pick up some dog food on the way home. Sure no problem.

Then she asks me, "Is something wrong?" to which I simply replied, "No, why?". She says, "You've been giving me the silent treatment the last couple days?"

Are you kidding me? WTF her issue?

I just told her that I promised to give her time and space and I've re-focused on that - nothing no, no additional issues, just trying to stick to what I said I would do.

Even though she doesn't like the pursuing (clear by the standard eye-roll I get when I pursue), she seems to almost miss it when I stop doing it?? Can someone explain what this is??

Is she still in the "game"? Should I take this as a positive sign??


Me - 34
W - 33
M - 8 years
T - 15 years
D7, D5, D2
Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY"
W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011