This is why we detach. I know it, just can't do it. lol.
It's taken me 2-1/2 months to reach a place where I am no longer obsessed with W, R and M. I can think about her and my sitch now without fighting a cloud of emotions. You'll get there; work on it and give it time.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."