What about the rings?

[habitacker]

DumpedforMIL, I hope you are right. Thanks for your views.

SIC, you are right about our emotions. After thanksgiving my wife left to work with her ring on, and came home without in on for a couple days in a row. It drove me nuts. Then a noticed a burn on her finger. She said she had burnt it taking the prime rib she made for thanksgiving out of the oven. This explains the removal of the ring. A few days went by, the burn looked better, and the ring was back on.

Just an example of tearing my self up over nothing. I have stated before that there is a negative or a positive in almost everything they do. We force ourselves to look at one or the other. Which is mind reading and can get us in trouble. This is why we detach. I know it, just can't do it. lol.