LOL - I hear you Habit. My W can't even put the car seats in herself. I've always done it. There are some other things (can't think of them at the moment) that she 100% relies on me for...although like you said not likely things to stay together for. I imagine if we split up she never take the car seats out of the car!
I feel the same way, I'm a good guy. Hard worker, solid father, take care of my family financially. We have an amazing time as a family. I'm working on fixing some of my flaws (which to be honest I never really realized were flaws) that I now know need to be fixed...
I can't say anything else...the rest of what you wrote is verbatim what I would have said!!
Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011