About the In-Laws: When we moved into the house 4 years ago, they agreed to move in with us, into an in-law-suite/basement, and give us 20k to help buy the house. Her Father said that he wanted us to guarantee we'd always have a place to help with her Mother, to help care for her after He died. At the time it seemed like a good idea, and it helped us buy a nice house. Also, 3 years ago, they helped us buy a swimming pool. Another 20k. So her Father feels like we owe them 40k. During my meeting with them, I apologized, and explained the marriage crisis I was having, etc. But they didn't seem to care, they don't even believe that she had a breakdown, they just think she's being selfish right now. Basically they'll be moving out in Feb, and will not be talking with us.. probably for years (they have not-talked-to-us before, and it lasted 3 years one time). Both of her parents are powerful-personalities. W doesn't care, she just wants them out. They have been very negative toward her. So, right now, I'm glad that I've done it.
