My dear Forrest, we have been through a lot "together" and you know I love you for all your help. When I read your post, I wanted it to be a point you were making for a newcomer that was stuck. I wanted that and didnt want to read your M is shaky, cause then... all of us piecing "lucky b@stards", may end up at the same point. Selfish? Yeah... But I am sure you will understand. It's the secret, non verbalised fear that lingers over at piecing forum...
Anyway, who brought up the "I am not happy" thing? You or Jenny?
Are there any other signs you get but havent shared with us? Could she be involved in any way with anyone else?
How is her career? Has she moved up that ladder? New power, new excitement?
How is your sex life? How has it been?
Do you honestly feel you can live without her? I know you maybe fed up and tired and disappointed because things SHOULD be OK by now, but getting tired clouds our judgement.
IMO, being happy in a long term relationship, involves the ability of the partners to be happy with what they have. Not in a "settle for whatever" way, but "focus on what is good, improve what isnt and dont allow the latter ruin the former" way.
