But this is where love is a decision, where it is patient and kind. Just keep being patient. How do you get patient? By being patient. Just do. There is no try, there is only do. But when you can't make yourself do, make yourself try. I know you get it.
huh? where can i find this in the DB/DR books? you totally lost me.
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And everything, absolutely everything is one day at a time. Actually one hour, one minute at a time. For this moment, be patient, be kind. Be love. Just be open and do the next right thing.
and what would the next right thing be? what does it say in DR/DB?
be patient? be kind? his w is treating him like a doormat. and the advice is to be kind?
we need a game plan here. something concrete. i'm sure if we put our heads together, we can come up with something.