I still wear mine and will keep doing so. It is a symbol of my commitment to my W. Regardless of what she says or feels right now, I will continue to honor my commitment with the symbol it represents. My W took hers off when she dropped the bomb, just as she had done the 2x before. If your wives are still wearing them, then I would agree that is a very good sign
M42 W38 D5D7 M8 Living as 'roomates' since 9-12-10 Moved out 1-7-11 FIL threatened to kill me 1-20-11