I try to look at it that way, but my wife is still the same nice sweet person she was when I married her. Maybe a little cold at the moment.

It is me who was the problem in the marriage. If she would be having an A, or turned into a completely different person, maybe I would be feeling different. But I am grateful this isn't true.

H-40 W-38
Together-20
Married-12
boy-7 girl-3
bomb-9/17/10
No papers
live together
No affair