What should I do?

[DumpedforMIL]

It means you look up to them. Or if they make a choice you go along with it because it is the best course of action.

so she is doubting your choices?
she looks down upon you. when did you start noticing this? who are you being compared to?

Get a good job. Get a house. Make babies. All is good.

what's missing?

"what are your thoughts on this?"

Whoever told me that was full of crap.

why did you listen to what you were told? did you have a choice?

how would you change the list of things to "do"?

You being a woman I expect that you can buy one. There is very likely a special code that you have to give out to get into the room. But Wal-mart sells them.

are you able to decipher the special code on this measuring stick? it sounds like you didn't interpret it correctly .. went down the path without asking for directions/clarification (typical man trait). and now you're wondering .. where am i?

why didn't you ask for directions? taking temperature is a db tactic .. esp test to see if things are going well.

I don't spend enough time with the kids.

Thoughts on that?

who's complaint is that? the kids or the W?

Now keep in mind.. it was money.. it was porn.. it was "pick something"

when you say "it was 'pick something'" .. it sounds like she's dancing around the real issue and she doesn't feel you've created a 'safe' environment for her to express her true thoughts.

Someone who chooses me. Even with all my crappy faults.

how does this 'you' with the crappy faults compare to the 'you' from the previous incident?

Jenny: "I can't believe after 17 years this is where we are."

Forrest: "I can't believe we are here after the past 4 years."

What do you think came next?

no clue. haven't been lucky enough to save my m.

The post was a journal.. or a challenge. I like reading thoughts and ideas. Sometimes I like reading my own thoughts or ideas when other people can see them.

i'm trying to figure out if i've learned something in the last year.