This is where I struggle. I can't picture being content. I want the perfect family I have now. I can never have that again if this M ends. This is the only woman I will have kids with. I don't care what anyone says, there is no way to be content with this.
Perhaps "content" is not the best word to use. In my sitch, the person I am married to is not the sweet person I married. It would not be totally horrible for me not to be around her. The way I see it is that aliens have abducted the sweet person and replaced her with a someone else. So I would not be "content" but it wouldn't be horrible.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."