a ring is the symbol of love and fidelity. My W was wearing her ring until I took it off for her... That she was wearing the symbol of her love and fidelity while she was involved in an affair....slap in the face as far as I am concerned.
"don't get me wrong. i wanted to save my m. but then i woke up from my own fog. did i still want to be married to a narcissistic prick who mentally and verbally abused me for years? i hope he rots in hell." How do you really feel? I find a lot of lbs do carry a fog once they get bombed. It is honorable to try and save your marriage, but reality is that some people are so set in their ways and determined to be right, that it is not possible. Some people never change so, sooner or later you just save yourself and wish them well (or wish they rot in hell, to each their own).
