She has said it. The words have come right out of her mouth.
"First define love for me!"
From my perspective or hers?
"Yes, and hopefully not to lie, steal, betray, ..."
Can't say I have done any of that.
Maybe when I was younger I lied. Not so much now.
"Already? Then build a community of families. When you're done with that build a nation. Then come back and post some more ..."
I have. It is here. You have been a part of it.
"What stick is this?"
Her stick. To me.. it seems ever changing. She tells me it does not change but life has thought me something different. To be honest I don't know why we have to measure each other at this point in our lives. Measuring things.. just seems petty to me. It seems so tit for tat.
"Have you tried the "rule of thumb" which says that the stick cannot be thicker than your thumb wink"
My wife has big hands.. so what does that mean?
"Define victory."
I have been a LBS and overcome that situation. More than once.
"Marriage is war that should end in the death of one or both spouses. Its not just one battle."
I totally disagree.
"What needs to get done?"
You tell me. I posted. I answered your questions. What needs to get done?
"A WAH in the making?"
Yes.. was I not clear with my first statement? If I am a WAH it is clearly just another label for me. Why should I care?
"And she does not love you either?"
Again.. who's perspective?
"Why not ask her?"
Well.. if you had followed along you would know that these were things that I have.. Overcome. Is something in that statement still in play now.. yes.
"First define the problem."
I feel like I am. Which part don't you understand?
"I don't mean to be cynical but to me marriage and love cannot be based on attraction which is fleeting and immature; it has to be based first on commitment otherwise you should take the domestic partner approach for tax saving purposes or the no strings attached "friends with benefits" approach and change partners as often as you wish and you won't need to bust a big D each time. If you happen to have "children out of wedlock" give them up for adoption at birth."
FB2.. I don't understand. Your comment had nothing to do with me. Or my stitch. Would you care to explain more?
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
