2 months for me Habit. Maybe we're not as far along in this process as we'd like to believe. I know that you have heard it before, but I'm going to say it again... patience.
And yes, what do you have to lose by giving it more TIME? Yes, we are lonely, but are we really ready to find new Rs? Continue waiting it out, detaching, hoping, being a great dad, and repairing yourself!
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce