I think the love dare is great if you just read it. Definitely mostly persuing, but the good thing it teaches you is about unconditional love. Which is something needed when the relationship or marriage is not on the rocks.
M - 42 W - 41 Married 9 years July 24, 2010 WAW moved out 8-9-10 2nd Marriage for Both S 2 SS 13 from W first Marriage