I am starting a new thread because I think you are supposed to after 100 hits. I am not sure how to post a link to my old thread.
Well, I have survived for about 4 months now since the bomb. In the last couple of weeks I think I am starting to accept what has to be done.
I am going to give her time, leave her alone, and try to decach the best I can.
It is really hard because I really think she is done. I see no sign of any change or willingness to try at all. But, if I accept this, I am done anyway. So I might as well be in it for the long haul and hope how I perceive things is wrong.
I see a lot of posts about people backsliding. I don't think I have had to write one of these yet, so maybe I am doing something right. I also feel like I am not doing anything, so how do I backslide? Same day over and over, not any worse, not any better. Getting very lonely.
Well I will just keep plugging along.
H-40 W-38 Together-20 Married-12 boy-7 girl-3 bomb-9/17/10 No papers live together No affair