She has been involved with him for about 18 months. It has been only 5 weeks since I confronted her about OM. How much time should I give her? If you keeps seeing him doesn't that just prolong things?
Of course it prolongs things Punchy. This goes back to the question that I posed on the other thread. Hard line approach vs. Wait patiently approach. It is a tough call. Sandi gave me a good answer though. If I want to hasten a D, then do the hard line. I think that I agree with that. We can't force our Ws to do anything. At least I know that I can't. I wish that I knew what to tell you (and myself) Punchy. Hang in there.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
