Sandi2 - you're such a jewel. What you wrote about a healthy R just strikes home to me how I am on the right path and that I need to keep doing what I've been doing. Everyone has an opinion and all advice is not good advice.

Scott33 - thanks for posting. I am just living out my journey. any help I can give is great, but I need lots of help, too! I am really hopeful that I can reach a point where I am acting with certainty, but right now so many things feel uncertain.

Me: 33, H: 32
M: 12 years T: 13 years
No kids
D-Day: 7/2009
Separated: 10/12/10
Future Unknown
GITS

"There's a fire starting in my heart, reaching a fever pitch and it's bringing me out the dark." - Adele