Absolutely! That's what DB'ng is all about. But you seem stuck concentrating on how SHE feels, what SHE thinks. Stop it!

Go the the kids games, but you don't have to sit together, or interact at all, for that matter, other than smile and wave.

And while I'm ranting, stop worrying about what a loser she has hooked up with. Not your problem. She'll find out, or he'll find out, or they will both find out sooner or later.

Think about YOURSELF. YOUR life. YOUR life with your kids. Why is she even at these get togethers with you anyway? Or more to the point, why are you there with HER???

AARRGGHH! To quote Charlie Brown. I congratulate you on being a Southern Gentleman. I, too am Southern, and I appreciate that, as there are too few of you out there. But as a Southern Woman, I'm also tougher than nails and more than able to take care of myself. So is your W, so quit being used and abused.

((HUGS))