Hi, I have not posted in several weeks because things were going so well. Found out sunday before thanksgiving husband was chatting on fb with another women. He said they never met and she lives several hundered miles away but he their conversations became very personal and not appropriate. He stated he felt she was someone he could talk to and I was no longer the person I used to be. He agreed to stop all contact but became very distant, talked about seperation and started blaming me for all of our promblems. I started doing the 180 and things changed he started warmng back up, talking to me going to functions. We even went on a weekend trip that had been planned before all this went down. Christmas was great spent time with our familys traveled and picked up funiture from my moms. Began talking about funture plans trips etc. He started saying I love you during phone calls and at home and our sex life has been better than in years. Then yesterday he started acting real funny again stating he was depressed didn't know why, he even acted distant with friends at a dinner party we went to. I noticed on our computer he was looking at rental property and when I asked him about it he said it was in case we decide to sell he wanted to see what was out there...didn't really believe this. Aslo notice he had searched for flights to dc where he does travel for work but also where ths other women lives. I decided to confront him and he stated he is not talking with her anymore and it wasn't about her. He said he is just unhappy when he should be content, says the last two years have been difficut and he doesn't feel the same way anymore WTF. He just gave me a birthday card and gift last week and sined it Love you always!!! I have avoided all r talks and now I wish I hadn't pushed him today to talk, but needed to know if the other person was still involved in our situation. What should I do now. I was so hopefull and feel so lost again. We have been married 9 years and have a 3 and 5 year old. He is not only been distant the last few days with me but with them.
