I feel that H saw me pulling back and doing my own thing, panicked and tried to draw me back in, but underneath it all, still is not committed to me.
But that is the first thing.....him wanting to draw you back to him. It works every time.
Co-dependency is a toxin MR. You can't live with him and you can't live without him. A healthy R is when you can have a well-rounded life that includes other things besides him (except OP, of course).
I know a couple who have been divorced for years but she cannot open her mouth and discuss anything without saying his name. She can't move forward and she can't reconcile with him. Sad.
You started out real good. Just hang in there.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
