Seriously CNS,

Eric is right. Why are you letting your wife get away with treating you this way? There is no love in this from her; only self-centered narcissism. Because you don't want to make her mad??? Because she'll think less of YOU?? She's acting like a horny teenager, in front of you, no less, and living with OM. Then kissing on you and acting coy? Women have a word for this. So do men. Women hate this word tremendously, so most of us don't use it often. It has 4 letters and starts with C.

Sorry man, but that's the way I see it.