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[zengypsy]

HRT - I think you have a very valid point. It is ALL about control at least in my sitch. Controlling FB, controlling leaving, controlling communication, controlling the D. It's a total power trip in their heads. Little do they know how NOT in control they truly are and how messed up they are making their lives.

Karma is a B****. There will be regret on my H's part someday. I'm just looking for a reconnection at this juncture - that has to come before a reconnection. But for now, going dark is the better thing for both of us or at least I think so. He did tell me that we have to learn how to live our lives w/o each other.

He knows the door is open; I've said it enough times. Now I just have to have my actions support my words and that starts with continuing to focus on me.