I want to clarify in my response to Sandi's much deserved 2x4 to my head, that I never cheated on my W. OW refers to female friends that I had, some being ex gfs, that my W was uncomfortable with after she and I started dating. I knew all of these OW prior to W and I meeting.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce