DB'ing but it's a daily struggle - need support.

[habitacker]

Do you put yourself in the situations for her to tell you that she doesn't love you? Such as, starting R talk. The pressure you put on her might be causing this.

My wife told me that I am like a roommate. A roommate that she doesn't even like. ouch.

My point is, if you disliked someone and did not want to be around them, but they just kept getting in your face, pressuring you to do something that you didn't want to do, How would you react? You might say something that isn't true or something mean just to get them the heck away from you. When she says she doesn't love you might just be the words she is using. Doesn't have to mean it is true. She thinks it is. Remember, she is in a fog.

Remember, believe nothing you hear, and only 50% of what you see.

I might be wrong, but it seems to me that there is a positive and a negative way to look at almost everything they do. We always seem to find the negative, which seems the most logical, but are they being logical? I don't think so.

Plus, the positive side is the only place for hope, so try to focus on that. What good can come from focusing on the negative. If everything is as negative as we see it, we are sh*t out of luck anyway. Right?

This coming from a man who 4 months ago was the most pessimistic son of a b**tch on the earth.