DB'ing but it's a daily struggle - need support.

[habitacker]

As for the waiting around for us to stop loving them? If this is true, we have to look at this as a positive.

While they wait for us to stop loving them, we need to make them fall in love with us again. somehow. Even with that big wall of fog in our way.

I know I can outlast my wife, and it sounds like you can to. We have to give it all we got. I think we are the only ones who have a clear image of what is at stake. We are the only ones who know the changes we have made. I have to accept that she can't see into my hear and mind and know what I truly am now.

This I have to remember, to remind me of why it seems that she can not try right now. She doesn't trust what she sees.