Separated for 11 weeks (long)...

[Denver_2010]

Thatgirl - I'm having a bad weekend with my emotions and keeping the faith too. Hang in there.

But I have to say that it starting to sound like you are becoming the WAS. Some of the things that you said about how your H has made you feel could have come out of my W's mouth. For months, I really think that I was the WAS in our M. I didn't leave the home and I didn't tell W that we were separated, but we had very little communication. That's when I believe that my W started feeling like you described in your post... ultimately, she made the decision to leave me. Now, as you can see, I'm desperate to fix things and would give an appendage for a time machine so that I could change some of my horrible choices.

I don't know what to tell you other than you need to go after what you want. That may be a new and improved M with H, or it may be something new and different. But never believe that your H CAN'T change. Take it from me, he can, but it has to be something that he wants for himself as well as the M.

Feel better.

Denver