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Need help here, do I tell her that I know she is still seeing the OM and repeat the boundaries discussion or just lay low?


Does she know what the boundaries are.....and does she know the consequences of not respecting those boundaries?

I don't see how repeating it is going to get positive results if there are no consequences.

You have to stay focused on your goal and how you will reach it. You have to know what you are willing to take--and where you will draw the line.

Take stock of the situation and then tell us.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!