i would like to think that the WAS is remorseful after a D but i think it depends. i wouldn't think my stbxh is remorseful just because he's a stubborn pigheaded excrement releasing orfice who has to be right at all costs. narcissists never think they are wrong.
i think WAW usually end up financially hurt in the end. but what about WAHs? are they better off?
what about the LBWs? are they better off financially? i know it isn't about money but i know that the standard of living for women drop after a divorce - much greater drop than men.