Hi simpleton, What are the specific things she says were broke (her being a circle, doesn't tell you or me, exactly what's wrong).
It appears you are doing the right things, and her talking LESS about leaving is good, so keep doing what you're doing FOR NOW. There may be more you can do if you understand what was broke.
I know it's hard watching her go party. The tact you are taking works for many people over time, and it's important to catch your baby steps. Hang in there. It's worth it.
