Interesting dream and great feedback from everyone. I'm not a dream analyst either but I have some questions for you:
--Do you have any idea why you were on the train too? If you were just observing, you could have done that from the train station, but you were positioned between H and OW, since you were seated behind her in the car. --How old was H when he dated OW originally and how long did they date? --Is it possible that you've picked up subtle cues from things H has said, or maybe observations your children or friends have made, that give you the sense that OW is less interested than H in their R?
It seems that if OW was pressing H to file for D, that the timing of H's cousin's death wouldn't matter from OW's perspective. Is it possible that H's cousin's (think it was a cousin?) death was another reminder of H's mortality.
Originally Posted By: punkin
F she was truly the love of his life, would it have taken 15 months to file??? Perhaps the significance of the dream is that he feels as if he is constantly running to catch up, and is losing both of you in the process. She may have presented him with an ultimatum after all this time, and he feels he has no other choice.