There was a similiar case here in Texas...the Cheating Wife that was snooped upon lost the case. The betrayed husbands lawyer said he had a right to spy to protect himself from HIV and STD's and to protect the children from possible sexual molestation, and to protect the children from possible violence and abuse by the other man being inside of their home. All of these things mentioned have occured with cheating spouses in the past, so they are a real threat to safety.