Can someone please explain the moderation set up? Posts aren't up after 2 days, threads staying on page 3 or 4. Is it moderated or automated? Am I doing something wrong? I can't find any posts on this so I thought I'd ask as I'm confused and see others confused too. I know it takes a lot of work to run forums (I run them for work so I do know) so believe me, I am not complaining at all! smile


Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy
H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16

Dating 4/07
M 10/08
Bomb #1 12/10
Bomb #2 1/11
Bomb #3 12/11