My Husband and I have been seperated for sometime. Of course, I was doing everything wrong...talking about emotions, crying, begging, anger and all that! Days before Christmas we got in a verbal fight via phone. Where I became very angry...I told him to make a decision to come home or end it! Duh, he ended it.
He contacted his family and mine to let them know about the Holidays that he was ending it. "Its not fair for her to keep waiting on me". I then found the book and read through The Resort Tech. I stopped calling and sending messages via facebook and etc.
Here is my question. Today is our Wedding Anniversary. He sent a message via facebook. It just said, he knew the day represented the day we exchanged vows. He wanted me to know he would be thinking of me. Should I respond???? What should I say???? A few days ago he sent a message that said, he missed me more every day and he doesnt know what he is doing. I just responded to that, I miss you too. Is this correct? I'm so unsure of how to respond to anything???!! Please help!
Me: 40 H: 39 M: 17 yrs - Together 18 1/2yrs No kids Seperated: May 18, 2006 EA/Poss PA with OW for 6 months prior to leaving. 2nd Bomb dropped: Dec. 23, 2010