You know, I've been all over the internet, but there really doesn't seem to be much out there in terms of what to do once you're divorced if you aren't ready to give up. There's plenty on how to survive and get back on your feet, but nothing about if you want to try to salvage the marriage. There's one ebook, but I'm sometimes a little leery of them. I know DR and DB does touch on it, but really they're about avoiding it in the first place.

Yet there are plenty of books on how to get your kids through it, the damage you or your ex can do to the kids, etc. So my question is, if there is so much information out there on how the big D is damaging our children, shouldn't there be advice on fixing the broken marriage so that the children don't have to run that risk?


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