Interesting 180's! I really have to ponder that in depth - thanks for some direction!
Yes, people do lie alot on those on-line dating sites from what I hear from my single friends. It's one thing to do a fake profile on-line per se, but how to do you keep that persona going when you meet face to face? It just scares me because there are so many crazy people out there on these sites. I don't mean to generalize, but I've heard such horror stories from all my friends who've been there and done that! As far as FB goes, I have an account and I'm not on all that much anymore under the circumstances because H is on as well. I'm too tempted to spy on his page plus he goes thru phases of blocking me and unblocking me. I on the otherhand have never blocked him once (I have nothng to hide) nor have I asked any of our 120 mutual friends to unfriend him. Actually, come to think of it, I consider that somewhat of a 180!! You propose an intersting idea too to consider a blog. My only hesitation is that I try not to make places like FB a billboard; more like a window. I like that mystery vibe! But it poses a curious question to know if I did do something like that if he would check it out and how frequently.
You are right, thank God that your boys are being shielded for now. It suck no matter what age. My parents got divorced when I was 23 and I was married to my first H at the time. It was still painful in part because my dad just up and left 2 days before Xmas to be with the OW who was pregnant with his kid.
I just don't know what happens to our spouses. Do they really think that a divorce is going to bring them to Utopia? Us sane folks know the answer to that one. :-)
How was your day today?
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
