Yeah, I'm doing all of these things for me. I felt like I had to hand the reigns over to her regarding the divorce because 1. she was in control of her decision making anyway and 2. her lack of decision making was a big part of the reason she wants out.
I'm not sure how I can seem strong through the divorce process while at the same time giving her control. But me making the decision to do what is best for me is definitely a bold move. I hope that that will start to let her see me in the light that attracted her to me in the first place.
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